Relationships and Committed Intimacy

why is commitment such a complicated factor in todays relationships? In the story FJ, Frankie does few(prenominal) she force out to make greyback happy besides he still decides to commit to other person. On the other hand, in the story GITSD, Frances and Michael are in a happy and perpetrate marriage but Frances can non stem the thought of her keep up admiring other woman. There are some(prenominal) key differences in the insinuate of commitment among the stories FJ and GITSD.\nThe graduation difference between the ii relationships is Commitment. FJ points out, He utter was her man, but he was doing her wrong. Frankie loved Johnny, to the point where she ended his life so that he could not dedicate the chance to be with other woman. Johnny wanted to be involved with other women and Frankie was not okay with it. The second m she shot him there was a new mans face in hell. To Johnny, commitment was not purpose of their relationship and it did not be to him. Contra stingly, in the story GITSD, Frances and Michael had the unanimous package when it comes to Robert Trotters system; for example, they had Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. In the words of Irwin Shaw, ...because they had slept late and had a good breakfast and it was Sunday. Although Frances could not stand the idea of her husband steping at another(prenominal) woman, Michael certainly alone had a heart and eyes for Frances and was only committed to she. He said he liked to look at women, but Frances rightfully took his words the wrong way. Michael watched her walk, view what a pretty girl, what puritanical legs., Says Irwin Shaw.\nThe second difference between the two relationships is Passion. FJ points out, Spend hundreds of dollars provided to buy her man some clothes. In the story FJ, two characters do not wait to be passionate towards separately other. Frankie, the girl fighting for her boyfriends love, goes preceding(prenominal) and beyond for Johnnys attention and gratitude. Whereas Johnny, only loving up Nellie Bligh. notes FJ, can car...